Why Does This Have to Be So Hard?
“I can’t let boys who don’t listen come shopping with us next time, are you ready to listen?” “I’m waiting to give you your food until you can ask nicely.” “I know you don’t want to hold my hand, but it’s my job to keep you safe and I can’t bring your places if you don’t act safe.” “Try again"…"Try again"… Does your brain ever feel just so exhausted by all the strategic thinking that parenting requires? Do you ever get tired of saying the same thing over and over again? Those were a rhetorical questions, I know that if you are a parent you know exactly what I mean. The above quotes were recorded during just one shopping trip with my youngest, who is a very strong-willed individual. I don't know if it is because he is the youngest of six or it's just in his DNA, but this boy's happiness is fueled by the power of choice. And I try to let him have as many choices as he can (within healthy boundaries), but man, it can be so taxing on this mama's cranium to...